Update to Social Media Semi-Blackout Update

So, last night. Went home from work. Had a nice conversation and chill with my wife as we discussed some stuff with the sitting next to me.

Then took the dog for a walk.

Then had dinner and helped clean up as we talked.

Then we watched a Rush concert on TV for the rest of the evening. I checked social media on my computer for about 30 minutes, put it away, and spent the rest of the night finishing the book I was reading. That’s it. No more social media.

I am finding, already, that I want to check social media less and less.

Slowing breaking the chains.

Social Media Semi-Blackout Update

Last week I removed all social media from my phone. Facebook, Instagram, Bluesky, Mastodon, Twitch, Discord. Even my micro.blog app for my skateboarding blog.

Yes, I can still get to all that stuff on my computer, but there is something about removing it from the phone that already feels liberating. Sitting at a computer I can still get to Instagram, but it really doesn’t work well on a computer. So I’m not really using it anymore. I can get to Facebook on a computer even here at work. I never use Discord from a work computer, so removing it from my phone means I’m not really using it much at all.

So at this point I think removing all that shit from my phone has been noticeably positive. I’m not checking social media in waiting rooms, in the restroom, etc. At night, after dinner, I look at it for a little while and then I pick up my Kindle or an actual physical book and read.

I know at least a few of my readers have made this kind of change, or a great change, already. Friends, I am right behind you. I’ll catch up. I’m working on it.

There can be little doubt that the “smart phone” is the worst technology ever invented – until AI. They go hand-in-hand.

Prosperity

Modern idea of prosperity…

Most people can easily afford stuff that doesn’t matter – TVs, phones, games, etc.

They can’t easily afford the things that matter – a home, medical care, healthy food, education.

It’s almost like we are seen as profit centers, not people.

List of Good Ways to Blog

If you want to have your own homepage or a blog, here are the ways I recommend.

Blog Hosting services

Advantage: Very little setup. You just get and account and start blogging. Low learning curve. If you can type a text document you can use these with little help. You don’t even need to know HTML. Concentrate on the blogging, not the technical backend.

  • Micro.blog – very full featured, multiple membership tiers.
  • Scribbles.page – great and simple system with simple and elegant themes
  • Pika.page – also great and simple, with a nice user interface
  • Bearblog.dev – a popular system that is also great

These are all great, and make it easy to get started. You can buy your own domain name and have it attached to your site. They are all reasonably priced. I mean – super inexpensive. I don’t recommend using blogger or other free services due to 1)advertising and 2)it’s owned by Google.

These are all small business, owned by one or maybe a few people. All good people. Your money will not be going to make a more terrible world.

Static Sites/Wordpress Installations

For a few dollars a month you can have space on a server where you can either 1) Do a one-click installation of the WordPress blogging system or 2)do things oldschool, and have a static site that is built by hand or with a Static Site Generator.  All of this is a bit more involved. The static site stuff in particular takes a bit more knowledge but can be very rewarding

  • Dreamhost.com: allows a one-click install of WordPress. You can also upload static webpages, like you would have done in 1994, which has advantages.
    NeoCities.org: allows you to have a free account and server space with a limited number of pages/storage. Can upgrade to more for a reasonable fee. Upload and host your static site here.
  • Other hosting services – it is very inexpensive to have hosting space somewhere. An example is Nearly Free Speech. These require some knowledge of HTML to write the page and understanding of how a website should be structured.

On Portability

We have a Nintendo Switch, so obviously we also have a subscription to whatever their service is (ugh – another damned subscription to cancel). Therefore, I am on their mailing list.

Last week I got an email with the subject line “Bring your games with you, anywhere you go”, and the attached image…

After spending a lot of time thinking about current and future technology use, the way online activity interferes with concentrating on more valuable activities (like reading, writing, skateboarding, the list goes on), I couldn’t help be think when I saw this email “Why is it good that people can take video games with them anywhere? Is it good? Is it desireable?”

Like the cursed cellphone, I think this kind of thing isn’t really good. I know it sounds like I just don’t like video games, and that is partially true. I’m not into them really, so I don’t really value them much. I understand, however, that they are entertainment and people like them so I’m not voicing this opinion just to crap on someone else’s fun.

A book is portable too. Why do I view that differently? Well, I think reading is a better thing to do when I’m sitting in a waiting room than playing a video game. Making video games portable is an example of what my niece calls “the Poison of Convenience.” It’s also a way of keeping people jacked-into the content machine and reinforcing the digital addition. It’s not even a conspiracy. It’s just Capitalism doing what Capitalism does, extracting value from the humans and nature.

The same goes for the damned cellphone. Harvesting your attention and the irreplaceable and valuable moments of your life to sell another product.

I’m not saying people shouldn’t play video games. I think video games can be amazing and fun entertainment. I’m talking about our ability to disconnect and be alone with the wonder and the horror of our own thoughts, in silence. The power to concentrate on something like a book, or sit and listen to music with no other sensory input.

I like having my Kindle with me at all times. I keep it in my backpack, along with some pens and a couple of notebooks. I like to write in journals. Before the Kindle I would usually have a physical book in there. Sometimes I’ll throw this Chromebook I’m typing on now in there too. But again – what do I really want to carry with me? Isn’t a book enough? At least the Kindle, while it can get on the web, makes it hard to do so.

Anyway, yeah, been considering how much portability is too much.